Women can be difficult to understand . . . not in this case though.  *edit*  Hmm, I think I may be sounding kind of sexist there, which is not my intention.  Women can be difficult for men to understand?  Does that sound all right? *Double edit*  Women can be difficult for me to understand?   I don’t want to generalize there.  And . . . you know what?  I’m an idiot.  I’ll just shut up now.